Destiny & Dharma

The destiny and natural meanderings of all human life and suffering are to lead us back to love by choice and to serve the Grand Master of all of life--Source, Creator, God, Abundance.

I was recently asked why a girl who is "as pretty as U R" does not have a "boyfriend"--why I'm not "taken."

I am.

My destiny and dharma have been revealed as a direct emanation of God's wisdom through all of time--an expression of Spirit in matter and form. My love, my heart, and my everything have been given since my birth to Source Power, which has made abundantly clear to me it is the Highest of Highs & the "living God" of my life.

I have learned about allowing men, in particular, their experience of me. I do not attempt to change it, nor do I use it as motivation or deterrent, one way or another.

I also have to say, thru experience and my own enlightenment, I have learned to not covet, or even desire, what is already within when it appears on the outer.

If I had a word of advice for women, and for men, on improving the quality of love in our world, it would be that--that the will, the force, and the manifestation of change must be contained to the inner, even based on what U see in the world. And when U glow with an effect of that work which becomes apparent to the world on the outer, they will make it known, or that light will make itself known within you, if and when it is ready to burst out as a radiant catalyst or expression of worldly experience for others to enjoy similarly.

It is not for you to change someone unless it is to help their soul or improve their destiny walked, nor is it 4 U to make them beautiful in a way not of their choice. It is not for you to choose their marital or spiritual path unless it is the way of your people and still has merit and some part of their soul choice still on it. And it is not for you to use violence when we are a people of policy and law that can be changed by anyone, in time, with a better idea, if he or she is united with his or her emanating God self, in all languages under the sun--times and peoples immaterial to the single matter at hand: A being with the answer who cannot be avoided without the destruction of many, if not most people--the biology of this planet that makes the rules in concert with or in degradation of Source Power.

I have to say that I have known love because I have chosen it, however, there is no gravitational pull or decision to love that has proven stronger in my time on this planet than the pull to walk my course in this life. It is a matter of time, space, frequency, people/places/surroundings that nurtures & nourishes my place during my time here, or there, that dictates right relationship and the fruition, or manifestation, of feeling all is perfect, peaceful, and fully functional in my world, regardless of how circumstances may be judged from a number of perspectives, possibly all at once.

And yet, there is no deeper, fuller, or more breathtaking a relationship with another than right chemistry, naturally, effortlessly, almost, where love is chosen and "worked." A discipline. Sacredness without saying. Making the talkers and Hallmark cards really not the highest bar. U heighten it. As problems that ail society & kill a relationship: greed, envy, lust, control, irreverence, fear, experiential suffocation, and the like, fall away, just so you can laugh like the Buddha as they do, to know that you can actually do it--that it is possible. And physicality becomes what it was intended to be: Amazing without addiction or need. Moving in a way that makes you laugh and cry at the same time.

And safe. Because you can see your partner at 100 years old, as you roll around in bliss with them at 23. As we become pure again by choice into our adulthood, through practices such as the yoga, meditation, our prayer states, etc., we can see the soul more easily, and more accurately. It is timelessness in every moment without stepping a second out of the time where U be.

I do believe that, like all species before us, we are here to procreate. And I think what has been forgotten, or blanketed with the kind of accepted boneheadedness that I have seen take over this world, at large, with Godlessness leading, is that what goes be4 this, is that we were made, too, to fall in love. With this world. And that we R meant to share that with each other, our being in love with someone with whom we burst out another human being, or more, being not really as all-important as some have made it out to be, as though that is the most they R going to do with their insecurity and lostness in this life, is expose him or herself to only one other, and that's it, and even then, not really that well, rather than grind away at their humanness until they are too sage for anyone to not honor and respect.

There are men I have relationships with because I go to see them (enough). And men who come to see me (frequently). And men who pay attention when they should be doing other things--in the car, at the workout place where I do my daily practice, on the sidewalk, at the places where I eat. And some of them, I think, R turned off or angry because I don't return their affection, if not all-out, immediate (Don't they question that at all, in terms of identification?) giving-their-life-to-me-like-a-brave-knight-to-a-perfect-Queen. And now, I put up my guard. There is no way to transmit to one so blinded & concluded early that you are ten lightyears down the road in Love School. And would they humble themselves, so to avoid being smote out, if you told them that, rather than their next, if not their only, before dying, otherworldly f**k, you were actually their living master and their guide? Would they still step to the tune of your evenflowing breath like wind caressing flowing water, if they knew it wasn't U that they desired but themselves? Or will they stop early becuz they feel guilty, if they accept the truth, that they know you are that figure but still want to have sex with you, anyway--as if you would?

If I gathered them all in a room, and rather than try to take one another out, if nothing else, in their minds, say for a round of asana, they actually opened themselves to being present to what was, we might see a teacher of teachers, a leader of leaders, with some eagerly charged, powerful men, all focused on one thing: Enlightenment.

The other scene is those same men dropping 10 leagues below surface level to drowning by taking one another out for wanting to bang the teacher who is an enlightened magician and wouldn't touch a single "B" or lower student, much less a class full of "F" ones, in the 1st place, since A.) She does not mix with her students like that, as part of the Destiny and Dharma, aforementioned, B.) Part of a perfect society, in physical love, is the merging of equals, which would not be the case, given their exhibition of strength, C.) They are all killing the team, which makes love matters null and void, and D.) She is already taken, as already explained.

True beauty is. And cannot be trumped.

Be taken already.